If you limit your choice only to what seems possible or reasonable, you disconnect yourself from what you truly want, and all that is left is a compromise.

Sometimes making easier choices is what we opt for rather than making the right choices. We prefer being tolerable rather than make the brawnier honorable choices.

We need to amass the courage to heed to our hearts as it will lead us to be astute, influenced by our intuitions, whether it’s an easy choice or not. If we want to be happy we need to be tougher on ourselves as life gets easier because our choices will be of quality.

I recently found out about the art of disconnecting, but somehow misinterpreted the goal, misconstruing it as an end. I now realize it’s not a bad thing after all, especially when in a blurriness in life. Disconnecting doesn’t necessarily mean a clean disconnect, there can still be connection but limited. The onus is to have more time to ourselves to aid calmness that spur us to make quality choices.

Tough loving helps our souls to regain clarity.